Families receive valuable insights from second opinions
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Families receive valuable insights from second opinions
Minnesota Hands & Voices Minnesota July-August 2013 focus —supporting families with kids who have hearing loss— Make friends at our annual Thursday, Aug. 1, 2013 5 - 8:30 p.m. Como Park Midway Pavilion (Midway Parkway & Horton Ave.) • Dinner: Famous Dave’s BBQ • U of M Raptor Center’s birds of prey • Face Painting & Games • Door Prizes! Please RSVP by Monday, July 29: Picnic RSVP Families receive valuable insights from second opinions When you need to make a big decision, you look for advice from many sources. The same should be true when you need to decide if a specific therapy or surgery is the right one for your child who has hearing loss. “Sometimes you simply need to hear the same information from another professional for it to sink in and feel comfortable with the decision,” said Candace Lindow-Davies, MN Hands & Voices Coordinator. “And, sometimes, there may be new information shared.” Candace acknowledged that it can make parents uncomfortable telling an audiologist or other medical professional that they want to get a second opinion. “They don’t want to offend that person, especially if they have an established relationship,” she said. But, most medical professionals want parents to get all the information they need to make informed decisions. “I welcome families to seek second opinions,” said Melissa Ferrello, an audiologist from University of Minnesota Amplatz Children’s Hospital. “Sometimes a family will feel guilty asking me about going to another center, but they shouldn’t. Many of the surgical options (such as bone-anchored devices or cochlear implants) are an elective surgery that is a team decision, and most importantly, a family choice. The family has every right to seek opinions of other professionals.” Parent Guide Brenda Hommerding has twin girls with hearing loss, and has had twice as many opportunities to seek second opinions, which she says “help in most situations.” “If both recommendations are the same, then you are moving in the right direction,” Brenda explained. “If the recommendations are different, then maybe you should think things through or even look at another opinion.” She looks at getting a second opinion much like taking a test a second time — your understanding of the material improves with the second go-round. She encourages parents to trust their gut — if something doesn’t feel right, get another opinion. One mom in our community found that a second opinion wasn’t enough. She trusted her gut, and sought out a third opinion, which turned out to save her son’s life. When her son’s physician delayed evaluation for a cochlear implant over concerns about long-standing infections, she and her husband went to another doctor because they felt their son was “losing precious language time.” The second doctor was eager to schedule implant surgery, despite the history of infections. “This ENT was impatient and did not take time to answer our questions and was ready for the next patient within seconds of telling us he wanted to schedule surgery,” the mom said. So the family looked for a third physician. “This ENT took time to talk with us about the other ENTs’ reports and asked us if he could do a CT scan,” she said. The scan showed an anomaly in her son’s ear that stopped the normal flow of fluid through the eustachian tube. His mastoid was backed up with infection that was eating through his bone and dura, the membrane covering the brain. “He could have died if the infection had reached his brain,” she explained. “Thank God that we kept getting new physician opinions. This third ENT saved our son’s life!” Our Upper Northwest Parent Guide, Leslie Hilde, had a similar experience with her daughter who was born with aural atresia, an ear without a normal opening. Leslie said she “just wanted it fixed,” but when a doctor agreed with her and was willing to do the surgery, Leslie had misgivings. “Something was telling me it wasn’t right,” she said. She did more research on her own, and realized that the surgery could cause facial paralysis, since the facial nerve lies very near the area requiring surgery. She let go of the idea of trying to fix her daughter’s ear. A couple years later, she met a new doctor who offered new hope in the form of a Baha, a bone-conduction hearing aid. “This ENT got it! He understood my concerns,” Leslie said. “When I asked, he answered. I wasn’t getting that from the other ENT. They both know their job and do it well, but this ENT and I just clicked.” “Clicking” with your medical provider is important. Another of our Parent Guides said she switched audiologists within the same center just to find one who was “a better fit.” Erika King, a speech-language pathologist at the Lions Children’s Hearing & ENT Clinic agreed that it’s perfectly fine to look for a professional who fits your family’s needs. “Finding the right speech-language therapist for your child is about ‘goodness of fit,’” Erika said. “I recognize that I am not (nor could I be!) the best speech-language therapist for all children. For example, I am still not great at sign language. So, if parents are pursing sign language, I am very up front about my weakness in that area, and then I make sure that they connect with a deaf mentor and more appropriate clinician,” she added. “I would rather hear from a parent that the relationship is no longer a good fit, or that they are exploring options closer to home, than to have the family feel that they are no longer benefiting from therapy sessions.” Minnesota Hands & Voices focus Join us at GiGi’s Playhouse We’re hosting a fun, free playdate for families with children who have Down Syndrome and hearing loss. Join us Saturday, July 20, 2013 from 3 to 4:30 p.m. at GiGi’s Playhouse in St. Louis Park. See our website, www.mnhandsandvoices.org, for details. www.mnhandsandvoices.org Thanks for your contribution! 1-866-346-4543 – 2 – Disney trips offered For the sixth year, the Children’s Tree House is offering Disney World Youth We rely on your generous support to Education Series (Y.E.S.) trips Aug. 17-24, build better lives for children 2013 for families with a parent or child who are deaf or hard of hearing. who is deaf or hard of hearing. Families build packages that work best for them. Please make a tax-deductible Park Hopper® tickets provide admission to donation today. Christian music fest interpreted all four theme parks—Magic Kingdom, Donate The Sonshine Christian Music Festival Animal Kingdom, Epcot Center, and Hollytakes place July 17-20 in Willmar. Most wood Studios. Prices are $165/3-day pass of the mainstage performers will be ASL to $185/5-day pass. For an additional $20/ interpreted. Interpretation is set for all person, packages can include admission to a Lions Clinic hosts family meet-up Disney “Fun” waterpark, miniature golf, or speakers, George Canyon, Family Force Five, Newsboys, Audio Adrenaline, Lecrae, sports park. Discounted lodging at Disney The Lions Children’s Hearing & ENT David Crowder, Petra, Building 429, Toby World resorts also is available for $95 to Clinic hosts a Family Meet-Up Tuesday, Mac, Love Out Loud, Kye Kye, For King & Aug. 6, 2013 in the Children’s Library/ $250 a night. The package includes a Disney Country, and Skillet. See sonshinefestival. Y.E.S. interpreted educational program for Family Resource Center, which is just com. For interpretation questions, email Kindergarten - high school students. These inside the lobby of the Amplatz Children’s [email protected]. programs give kids a behind-the-scenes Hospital in Minneapolis. The meetings experience at a Disney park. Learn more at give families with young children who have hearing loss the chance to connect and learn bit.ly/158As4H. Family event interpreted about options for managing hearing loss. The clinic provides snacks, onsite childcare, ASL instructor/interpreter Debbie Twins host ‘Deaf Day’ Sept. 8 Lawrence will be interpreting activities at the gas cards and parking vouchers to offset the The Minnesota Twins host Baseball Day Maple Grove LifeWay Christian Store (12985 cost of the transportation. 2013 for the Deaf, DeafBlind and Hard Elm Creek Blvd) during “Celebrate the School holds golf fundraiser of Hearing at Target Field Sunday, Sept. 8 Family” weekend July 26 & 27. Debbie will with specially priced seats in the “Home Run interpret the new Veggie Tales movie trailer Northern Voices’ 12th annual Golf Porch Terrance” area of the stadium. A limited and and related crafts from 1 to 3 p.m. The Classic and auction is scheduled for Thursnumber of tickets are available for $16. The event is free and open to the public. day, Aug. 15, 2013, at the Wilds Golf Club Twins are playing the Toronto Blue Jays in Prior Lake. This is the school’s largest at 1:10 p.m. Reserve tickets online at www. fundraiser of the year; all proceeds benefit Cued Speech classes offered twinsbaseball.com/dhh by Aug. 30. children with hearing loss who are learning The Cued Speech Association of Minne CSD will hold tryouts for families interto talk and listen. You can become a golfer, sota (CSAM) offers three levels of classes in ested in signing the National Anthem before the volunteer, sponsor, or donate to the silent Cued Speech Aug. 12 and 13 at Gideon Pond auction. See northernvoices.org. game. Tryouts are July 22, 23, 24 at CSD of Elementary in Burnsville. Beginner, Cued Minnesota between 9:30 a.m. and 4 p.m. To Speech Skills, and Transliterator classes run reserve a spot, email [email protected]. Fair provides accessible shows from 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. Classes are $60 for MDS holds ‘Run for Fund$’ CSAM members, $75 for others. Registration The 2013 Minnesota State Fair held information is at www.cuedspeechminnesota. Aug. 22 through Labor Day in St. Paul Metro Deaf School (MDS) in St. Paul org, or email [email protected]. provides ASL interpretation for the 11 a.m. has planned a “Run for Fund$: Pitch in for a Kitchen” 5K walk/run at 9:30 a.m. Timberworks Lumberjack Show, and, for Sunday, Oct. 6, 2013 at Como Park. The the 12:30 p.m. Sean Emery show at the Saints host ‘Deaf Day’ Aug. 22 Family Fair Stage. To see the full schedule of school is raising money for a kitchen. See beta.active.com/st-paul-mn/running/ Fair events, go to www.mnstatefair.org. To The St. Paul Saints host Deaf Day Aug. 22 at 7 p.m. at the Energy Park stadium The request an interpreter for a specific show, call run-for-fund-pitch-in-for-a-kitchen-2013. 651-288-4448. Assistive listening devices can $10 package ($23 value) includes a general be checked out from the guest services office MADC conference set for October admission ticket, Saints hat, and a voucher with a photo ID/credit card to use during Save the date for the Minnesota for a hot dog and pop. To order tickets, go Grandstand events. Association of Deaf Citizens’ 60th Biennial to saintsgroups.com with the password Conference Oct. 11-12, 2013. deafday13, or call 651-644-6659. focus is published bimonthly by Minnesota Hands & Voices, Lifetrack Resources, 709 University Ave. W., St. Paul, MN 55104 www.mnhandsandvoices.org 651-265-2435(V), 1-866-346-4543 (toll-free) Toll-free VideoPhone: 1-866-261-0857 E-mail: [email protected] Newsletter Editor: Audrey Alwell Information in this newsletter about other organizations does not imply endorsement by Minnesota Hands & Voices or Lifetrack Resources. © 2013 Lifetrack Resources Minnesota Hands & Voices focus www.mnhandsandvoices.org New book gives parents knowledge, tools to advocate for children in school National Hands & Voices has released a new publication called “Educational Advocacy for Students who are Deaf or Hard of Hearing: The Hands & Voices Guidebook” for families with children who are deaf or hard of hearing. This guide outlines the rights of the student and family, as well as the responsibilities of those charged with ensuring that a free, appropriate public education is provided. This easy-to-read guidebook arms parents with knowledge so they can obtain the necessary services and supports in school for their child who is deaf or hard of hearing. Topics include eligibility for special education, Individualized Education Plans (IEPs), assessments, and advocacy strategies. The book (including shipping & handling) is $34.90, with discounts for larger orders. See www.handsandvoices.org. 1-866-346-4543 – 3 – Auditory Learning: Research to Practice in Children with Hearing Loss Audiologists, speech and language professionals, educators, students, and parents of children with cochlear implants or hearing loss are invited to attend this one-day workshop Oct. 12, 2013 from 8 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. at the Holiday Inn Bloomington. The $95 course fee is reduced by 50% for parents and students. See www.fairview.org/Services/Rehab/ContinuingEd/ Register/S_100336. Interpreter workshop offered The annual ASL interpreter workshop will focus on interpreting literature in the classroom. It will be offered Aug. 28 from 8:30 a.m. to 3 p.m. at St. Catherine University’s Continuing Education Conference Center (1890 Buford) in St. Paul. The workshop is geared toward ASL interpreters and will be presented in ASL, however, DHH teachers may attend. The workshop will look at strategies for handling difficult language in literature, like Shakespeare or Dr. Seuss; how to adjust Gallaudet offers online genetics course the interpretation of a text used in multiple grades; the limitations in The Laurent Clerc National Deaf Education Center at Gallaudet interpretability of literature in the classroom, like reading aloud; and University has released “Critical Needs of Students Who are Deaf or working with students to broaden their knowledge of cultural norms Hard of Hearing: A Public Input Summary.” The 18-page document, and language. developed for educators, academic researchers, service providers, Registration begins at 8 a.m. The $40 fee includes lunch. The grant seekers, and policymakers, identifies 14 barriers that deaf and workshop is offered for .55 CEUs and assumes some knowledge of hard of hearing children encounter in birth-21 academic environthe topic. The online registration deadline is Aug. 23. To register, ments. It provides analyses from 1400 comments that were collected go to www.ecsu.k12.mn.us/registration. For registration questions, from 775 respondents, 85 percent of whom live or work with deaf contact [email protected] or call 612-638-1529. and hard of hearing children from traditionally underrepresented groups. The document and a summary are online at www.gallaudet.edu/ Gallaudet University houses Clerc Center daily_digest/dhh_critical_needs_survey.html. Gallaudet University’s federally funded Laurent Clerc National Deaf Education Center provides information, training, and Gallaudet offers online genetics course assistance for parents and professionals who work with children who Gallaudet University is offering the online course “Genetics are deaf or hard of hearing. Named after the first teacher of the deaf and Hearing Loss for EDHI Professionals” from Sept. 9 to Nov. 15, in America, the center works to improve the quality of education for 2013 for 3.7 CEUs. This course includes basic to more advanced deaf and hard of hearing children up to age 21 from a wide variety information on genetics, inheritance, genetic counseling and genes of backgrounds throughout the United States. for hearing loss. Registration deadline is Sept. 1, 2013. See details at The Clerc Center currently operates two demonstration schools, www.gallaudet.edu/Genetics/Genetics_Education/Online_Course_ Kendall Demonstration Elementary School and Model Secondary Genetics_for_EHDI_Professionals.html. School for the Deaf. These schools include deaf and hard of hearing students from infancy through high school. Following the 2008 reauthorized Education of the Deaf Act, the center tests different Legislature passes bills for mentors, guides educational strategies to help their students meet academic standards of No Child Left Behind. As Minnesota’s 2013 legislative session wraps up, the Commis Gaulladet’s website has a section for the Clerc Center, which sion of Deaf, Deafblind, and Hard of Hearing Minnesotans has offers information and resources related to the development and released a summary of bills related to hearing loss that passed. education of children with a hearing loss. There is information Highlights include the bill that allows newborn hearing screening on cochlear implants, how to read to children in ASL, national test results to be saved, and increased funding for Deaf Mentors outreach providers, and a collection of Clerc Center publications. and Parent Guides for children who are deaf, deafblind, or hard You can visit their website at clerccenter.gallaudet.edu. Find the of hearing. To see a full list of the related bills that were either Clerc Center’s Spring 2013 newsletter with school updates, research, passed or will be voted on again next year, see www.mncdhh.org/ and current projects at http://issuu.com/clerccenter/docs/spring2013. news/645/2013-legislative-session-wrap-up. Minnesota Hands & Voices focus www.mnhandsandvoices.org 1-866-346-4543 – 4 – The View from Here Southwest Minnesota Hands & Voices holds its annual Family Picnic Tuesday, Aug. 13 from 5 to 8 p.m. at Tourtelotte Park on Mabel Street in Mankato. We’ll provide a hot dog supper, drinks, and dessert. This free event also includes a balloon artist, books, crafts, and door prizes. RSVP to Parent Guide Kris Hemstock at [email protected] or 1-888-214-0660. Southeast Parent Guide Mary Ellen Bondhus and Deaf artist Marian Lucas lead art activities for kids from 11:30 a.m. to 2:30 p.m. at Anderson Center for the Arts in Red Wing during its Summer Celebration Saturday, July 13, 2013 from 11 a.m. to 5 p.m. Details on this art fair, art demo and more at bit.ly/12vVawV. MSAD celebrates 150 years The Minnesota State Academy for the Deaf (MSAD) celebrates its 150 year anniversary Sept. 26-29, 2013. The schedule includes a volleyball game, class parade, football game, gala banquet, and several meals. Tickets are $100 for all four days, but individual tickets are available for each event. Additional events not covered by the general admission tickets include the 5K run on Saturday after the football game and a golf tournament and brunch at the Legacy Club on Sunday morning. Registration is required by Aug. 15. Details and the registration form are on MSAD’s website: www.msad.state.mn.us/Community/alumni/index.aspx. As part of the 150 year celebration, MSAD is selling custom-printed T-shirts alumni can order with their names and graduation year. The school also has created a coffee table book of the “Sesquicentennial History of the Minnesota State Academy for the Deaf.” Both items can be ordered at www.msad.state.mn.us. Minnesota Hands & Voices hosted a picnic and program May 18 at Quarry Hill Nature Center in Rochester. Families enjoyed a picnic, games and a chalk drawing contest. They ended the day with a program “Spring around the Pond” led by a Quarry Hill Naturalist. Top: The group learns about life around a pond. Above left: The Gasners Above: The Hansons Left: Moms and kids watch as the naturalist explains how a toad catches food. Minnesota Hands & Voices focus Website showcases best accommodations for sports As you sign your kids up for fall sports, you might be thinking of what accommodations you should request. All children have the legal right to access after-school activities. Here’s a resource for accommodations in sports and extra-curricular activities for children with hearing loss. In 1996, Dr. Catherine Palmer and colleagues developed a 90-page resource, Time Out! I Didn’t Hear You. Excerpts of this publication are now available on “Supporting Success for Children With Hearing Loss” at successforkidswithhearingloss.com/sports. The site includes a long list of most sports and suggested accommodations for each type of competition, like Ear Gear and SuperSeals protective devices for hearing aids. The site also features success stories of star competitors with hearing loss and a short summary of how the student, parent, coach, athletic director, principal, school-board member, and educational audiologist can make athletics accessible in the most comfortable, cost-effective way for a child. Improve cue skills at camp Families and individuals who want to improve Cued Speech skills can attend a Cue Camp July 26 - 28, 2013 in Chicago, Aug. 21 - 25 in Maine, or Oct. 3 - 6 in Virginia.There’s also a family camp in South Devon, England Aug. 2-4, 2013. Scholarships are available for the U.S. camps. See www.cuedspeech.org/cue-camps. ASL taught to care providers Debbie Lawrence of Easy Signing is offering an ASL class for professional care providers Saturday, July 27 from 10:30 a.m. to 2:30 p.m. in the Community Room at 3777 Park Center Blvd in St. Louis Park. Email [email protected] or call 612-521-7446 for information. National park creates ASL videos for deaf visitors Yosemite National Park in California has created five online videos in ASL that answer questions about the park. There are videos on requesting an interpreter, the free access pass, interpreted activities, driving in Yosemite, and public videophones. You can find the Deaf Services playlist on their youtube channel at www.youtube.com/user/ yosemitenationalpark. www.mnhandsandvoices.org 1-866-346-4543 – 5 – Transition Student appreciates time at University Editor’s note: Justin graduated last month from the University of Minnesota. He submitted this piece earlier this year. My name is Justin Barlow. I am currently a senior pursuing a bachelor’s degree in Mechanical Engineering. I began my college career at RIT and decided my major should be Mechanical Engineering at the end of my freshman year. However, the environment wasn’t very motivating, and I didn’t feel like I could get going at RIT. I think this was largely due to the peers and their lack of support. Eventually, I realized that I couldn’t stay in RIT anymore because it was getting too expensive, and I didn’t want to dig myself deeper in debt, so I left after my sophomore year. I had the desire to go back to school and finish my degree, so due to the deaf waiver program available at the University of Minnesota, I was able to waive my tuition completely. I also have access to vocational rehabilitation to help out with books and transportation. Transportation in the Twin Cities is amazingly accessible, and it is evolving rapidly. There is currently a project under construction, due to be completed by 2014. This project is a train that passes through the U of M campus from Minneapolis to St. Paul. There is also a free campus connector, which really helped me because I was getting married at the time I entered the U of M and wanted to live off-campus. Without the ease of transportation, I probably couldn’t go to the U. The programs at the U of M along with the available accommodations for students with disabilities are AWESOME. They are a lifesaver for us; they make us learn like hearing people, but better. When I said better, I really mean it, because they made learning that easy! As for the campus life, I was a part of the D/HH student ambassadors program for one and a half years, and I loved every moment of it. We had multiple visions and were able to integrate nearly all of them and execute events with those visions. Our ongoing projects kept us motivated as students, as individuals, and as team members. I had huge spiritual growth during my stay at the University of Minnesota, and I highly recommend this university to all deaf and hard of hearing students out there. This university has an ability to change people’s life forever. “Teen Scene” kids pose by the gate at Valleyfair, where they met for a fun-filled outing last month. The group for teens ages 13-17 who have hearing loss meets every other month for outings. For information, email [email protected]. Minnesota Hands & Voices focus www.mnhandsandvoices.org 1-866-346-4543 – 6 – Deaf man on Project Runway Give a Hand to... This column features folks who improve the lives of our children who are deaf or hard of hearing. Let’s give a big hand to... Marcia Passi and the DHH students of Humboldt High For the second time, students at Humboldt High School in St. Paul made baby blankets to give to families when a baby’s hearing loss is identified through newborn hearing screening. The students tied tags to each blanket so the family that received it would know who made it. Our MNHV Parent Guides give these blankets to families at their initial visit to welcome them to our community. “ “The project lets these young adults do good work by reaching out to others with hearing loss,” Candace said. “We could not be more grateful for their handiwork!” “This was a great project,” said Marcia Passi, from Humboldt. “The kids loved working on it. It always amazes me the kids who struggle the most in reading just excel at projects like this and actually correct other kids’ mistakes—a great leveler of the playing field!” The next season of “Project Runway” beginning July 18 will feature its first deaf competitor, Justin LeBlanc. The show has designers create pieces for a weekly challenge, sometimes even using materials like plants or food, which are then judged by a panel of celebrities in a weekly fashion show. Designers are eliminated weekly until a winner remains. Justin LeBlanc was born with severe sensorineural hearing loss and grew up signing. He received a cochlear implant when he was 18 that gives him some hearing, but he still signs. Justin completed a bachelor’s degree in architecture, but became interested in fashion when he took a studio class. He went on to complete a Master of Design in Fashion, Body, and Garment from the Art Institute in Chicago and is currently an assistant professor in the College of Design at North Carolina State University. For more information on the show and Justin LeBlanc, see ww.mylifetime. com/shows/project-runway/season-12/ designers/justin-leblanc. New apps alert users to alarms, track health care Staff and students in the DHH program at Humboldt High School show the blankets they made to give to newborns with hearing loss. Book app teaches signs A new iPad app produced by an all-deaf team is both a story and a sign language tool. “The Baobab” is about the adventures of a curious little girl, told through colorful illustrations and ASL storytelling. The app includes a glossary of 170 English to ASL words. It was designed based on research from the Science of Learning Center on Visual Language and Visual Learning at Gallaudet University, which is working on two more storybook apps. For information, see www.vl2storybookapps.com. Gerry Hughes, a teacher from Scotland, became the first deaf person to sail around the world in May after an eight-month, 32,000-mile voyage. Read about his journey at www.facebook.com/GerryHughesQuestlll and http://gerrysmhughes. com/Challenge-i-428.html. A couple of award-winning mobile apps are making life a little easier for people with hearing loss. A team of computer science students from California State University-Northridge won the international SS12: Code for a Cause competition for a mobile app that alerts a person with hearing loss to audio disturbances. “Audio Alert” can interpret sounds such as sirens, smoke alarms, car horns or even crying children, and translate them into flashing lights, vibrations and texts on a users’ phone. The free app is available at Google Play. Recently named the winner of the healthfinder.gov Mobile App Challenge, the new myfamily app gives families customized prevention information, tips, and a planning tool for healthcare. It creates personal health alerts, keeps track of past medical checkups and vaccinations, prescription drug reminders, locates health resources, and can teach the user about the services covered by the Affordable Care Act. Download the app through the Apple Store or learn more at http://lyfechannel.com/healthfinder_app/. Minnesota Hands & Voices Minnesota July-August 2013 focus —supporting families with kids who have hearing loss— Make friends at our annual Thursday, Aug. 1, 2013 5 - 8:30 p.m. Como Park Midway Pavilion (Midway Parkway & Horton Ave.) • Dinner: Famous Dave’s BBQ • U of M Raptor Center’s birds of prey • Face Painting & Games • Door Prizes! Please RSVP by Monday, July 29: Picnic RSVP Las familias reciben una mayor comprensión cuando piden segundas opiniones Cuando necesita tomar una decisión importante, normalmente se busca consejo de diferentes tipos. Lo mismo debería aplicar cuando usted necesite decidir sobre si una terapia o cirugía en específico son las adecuadas para su hijo con pérdida auditiva. “Algunas veces, usted simplemente necesita escuchar la misma información de otro profesional para que tenga mas sentido y usted se sienta cómodo con esa decisión”. Dice Candace Lindow-Davies, coordinador de Manos y Voces de MN. “Algunas veces, quizá encontrara nueva información al respecto”. Candace sabe que a veces puede ser incomodo para los padres decirle al audiologo o cualquier otro profesional de la salud que quieren una segunda opinión. “No quieren ofender a la persona, especialmente si ya han establecido una relación”. Candace. Pero la mayoría de los profesionales médicos quieren que los padres obtengan toda la información que necesiten para que tomen decisiones bien informadas. “Invito a las familias a que busquen una segunda opinión”, dice Melissa Ferrello, audiologa de Amplatz del Hospital del Niño de la Universidad de Minnesota. “A veces las familias se sienten culpables cuando me preguntan sobre la posibilidad de ir a otro centro, pero no deberían. Muchas de las opciones quirúrgicas (como un procesador osteointegrado o implantes cocleares) son cirugías electivas y la decisión se debe hacer en equipo, y lo mas importante, una decisión familiar. La familia tiene todo el derecho de buscar opiniones diferentes profesionales”. Padre guía Brenda Hommerding tiene unas niñas gemelas con perdida auditiva, y ha tenido el doble de oportunidades para buscar por segundas opiniones, y ella dice que eso le ha ayudado en la mayoría de las situaciones. “Si las dos recomendaciones son la misma, entonces usted se esta moviendo en la dirección correcta”, explica Brenda. “Si las recomendaciones son diferentes, entonces pero cuando el doctor estuvo de acuerdo con quizá usted debería pensar muy bien las cosas o hasta buscar otra opinión”. Ella compara ella y estaba dispuesto a hacer la cirugía, Leslie el pedir una segunda opinión con tener la tuvo sentimientos encontrados. oportunidad de repetir un examen – su “Algunas veces me decían que algo no entendimiento del material mejora para la estaba bien” Leslie. Ella investigo más por su segunda oportunidad. Ella motiva a los padres cuenta, y encontró que esta cirugía podría a que confíen en sus instintos – si sienten que causar parálisis facial, ya que el nervio facial algo no esta bien, busquen otra opinión. esta muy cercano al área donde se requería Una mama en nuestra comunidad la cirugía. Ella decidió desechar la idea de encontró que la segunda opinión no era sufiarreglar el oído de su hija. Un par de años ciente. Ella confió en su instinto y busco una después, conoció a un nuevo doctor que le dio tercera opinión, la cual salvo la vida de su hijo. esperanzas en la forma de BAHA, un aparato Cuando la evaluación del retraso físico en su auditivo hueso – conductivo. “Este otorrino lo hijo para un implante coclear preocupa por las tiene! El entendió mis preocupaciones”, Leslie. largas infecciones, ella y su esposo fueron con “Cuando pregunté, el respondió. Yo no tenía otro doctor porque sentían que su hijo estaba eso con el otorrino anterior. Los dos saben cual “perdiendo tiempo preciado de lenguaje”. El es su trabajo y lo hacen bien, pero con este segundo doctor estaba ansioso por programar otorrinolaringólogo simplemente hice clic”. una cirugía para los implantes, sin tomar en Cliquen: con tu doctor es importante. cuenta el historial de infecciones. Otro de nuestros Padres Guías dijo que “Este otorrinolaringólogo era impaciente cambiar de audiólogos dentro del mismo y no se tomo el tiempo de contestar todas centro puede ser suficiente para “encontrar un nuestras preguntas y estaba listo para el mejor fit”. siguiente paciente en segundos después de Erika King, patóloga de habla y lenguaje decirnos que el quería programar la cirugía”, de la clínica “Lions Children’s audición y otordice la madre. Entonces la familia busco por rinolaringología” esta de acuerdo de que esta un tercer doctor. “Este otorrino, se tomo totalmente correcto el buscar por un profeel tiempo de hablar con nosotros sobre los sional medico que se ajuste a las necesidades de reportes de los otros otorrinos, nos pregunto si su familia. podría hacer una tomografía”. La tomografía “Encontrar al terapeuta de habla y lenguaje mostro una anomalía en el oído de su hijo que indicado para su hijo o hija esta ligado con que detuvo el flujo normal del fluido por el tubo tan buena es la química que se tenga”. Erika. de Eustaquio. Su mastoides estaba llena de “Reconozco que yo no seré la mejor terapeuta infección que se estaba comiendo el hueso y el de habla y lenguaje para todos los niños. Por tímpano y las membranas que cubren el cerebro. ejemplo, aun no soy muy buena en lenguaje “El pudo haber muerto si la infección hubiera de señales. Entonces, si los padres están llegado al cerebro”, explica la madre. “Gracias a enfocándose en leguaje de señales, yo seré muy Dios que seguimos buscando opiniones de dife- sincera sobre mi debilidad en esa área, y me rentes doctores. Este tercer otorrinolaringólogo asegurare de conectarlos con un mentor sordo salvo la vida de nuestro hijo!” y el personal mas indicado”, Erika. “Prefiero Nuestro Padre Guía de la parte alta del escuchar de un padre que la relación no esta Noroeste, Leslie Hilde, tuvo una experiencia funcionando ya, o que están explorando otras similar con su hija, quien nación con atresia opciones mas cerca de casa, que el que la aural, un oído sin una entrada normal. Leslie familia sienta que ya no se esta beneficiando de dice que “ella solo quería que lo arreglaran”, las sesiones de terapia”.